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Post by !P.I.E! on Feb 20, 2009 21:57:24 GMT -5
 ^This is Aiden.
Okay, so, little lovely Alex did somthing extremely bad and I don't know what to do. So theres this boy that I hang out with a lot, and just one night I got reeeal drunk and well... you can guess what happened, and now my some people found out and now their spreading it around to school that I had sex with him and nooow I'm the two of us are getting called into the principles office and he's threatening us that he'll call our parents if we do it again, and we've kinda been secretly getting together but no ones found out but the people I really trust and I think my extremely religous aunt angie figured out that I basically threw my virginity out the window at a young age, and I seriously don't know what to do, or if I should tell someone.
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Post by [R] a v e n on Feb 20, 2009 22:12:27 GMT -5
-hug- Darn those alcoholic drinks, right? I'm sorry that happened Love. I really don't know what to say, never gone through it, and I've never known anyone who has. All I can say is, do what you feel is right. Do what you think will hold the best outcome. Just be careful right now, if you are worried that something will happen or how the people will see you perhaps you should stop seeing him secretly. But then again I am the hated one in my school, no one likes me at all. lol. So I haven't gone through anything. -hug again-
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Post by !P.I.E! on Feb 20, 2009 22:17:15 GMT -5
-hugz- thanks Rave, but It would be kind of hard to stop seeing him though, 'cause he's my boyfriend, but I'm guessing its illegal in my school to do that with your boyfriend, as for the alcohol that was a bad idea, and my fault, but it was a party on friday last week so yeah... [/blockquote] |
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Post by [R] a v e n on Feb 20, 2009 22:24:00 GMT -5
-hug- Just take it slow for awhile, avoid the alcohol and see where that takes you. ^^
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Post by !P.I.E! on Feb 20, 2009 22:28:03 GMT -5
Kay, I just want to find out who spread it, there was a lot of people from my school that was at the party... maybe I'll ask brewer(Security Officer) who tipped him or he over heard talking [/blockquote] |
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Post by [R] a v e n on Feb 20, 2009 22:41:11 GMT -5
lol. ^^ That's an Idea!
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Post by Thistl£ on Feb 20, 2009 23:27:07 GMT -5
I was in the same situation as you, babe. It's alright, though ^^ I mean, come on, you're playing it safe, right? You're family can find out whenever you feel like you're ready to tell them, so don't worry about that. And for people at school; well, they're immature, life-ruining, pregnant doges and hos anyways. I personally think you shouldn't waste your time thinking badly about this, because it's a way of life. :]
Having sex is the reproduction of the world, so therefore I find it as a positive act. People who say sex is bad will be the end of civilization! So really, people like us are saints ;]
Totally kinda random and not sure if it helps, but there's my two cents ^^ |
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Post by D.e.a.t.h & Aphotic on Feb 21, 2009 0:26:38 GMT -5
Tell me who and ill beat them to a pulp .....okay that's hard to do over the internet but you've got my support no matter what you chose. Just go with what you feel is right. We all make mistakes and as thistle said above it is human nature. I haven't had an experience like you so my advice may not be the best.
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